Why you should be sexually submissive to your partner – It’s takes strength to be submissive. Before I had my own submissive experience, I had a pretty warped idea about what the BDSM relationship between a submissive and a dominant was like.
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To me it sounded perverse, like something sick and sexist. Why would you want to belittle yourself in your partner’s eyes? What could be sexy about being used like a sex toy?
I have never been so wrong in my entire life.
Experimentation led me to discover that being submissive didn’t just make me feel good, it made me realize just how powerful of a person I really am.
Here’s 5 reasons why, in case you’re curious (and I know you are):
1. When you’re the submissive, you’re the one with all the control
Control freaks like me are notoriously massive submissives. Why? It actually makes a ridiculous amount of sense. If you spend your whole life like I do, trying to manage and control every aspect of your life from what you’ll have for breakfast to how to split the bill at dinner, relinquishing all control feels insanely good. But see, here’s the thing: the submissive is actually the one wielding all the power. Submissives set the parameters of the relationship in order to fully let go. It’s an important contradiction.
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