Bad signs that your relationship is over – Cut your losses and move on. I’ve been helping men and women improve their love lives for more than 40 years. Most everyone I know wants a long-term committed relationship. But most everyone finds it difficult to achieve.
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We know that around 50% of first marriages end in divorce and 75-80% of men and women who have a failed first marriage will remarry, usually within five years. But 66% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.
Too many relationships fail when they could be saved. Most couples have a faulty love map and so get lost on their way to finding real, lasting love.
In my book, The Enlightened Marriage: The 5 Transformative Stages of Relationships and Why the Best is Still to Come, I describe five stages for having the joyful, intimate, juicy, sexy, comfortable, adventurous, relationship most people long to have:
- Falling in Love
- Deepening Love and Making a Life Together
- Disillusionment and Incompatibility
- Real, Lasting Love
- Finding Your Calling as a Couple
Stage 3 is the most misunderstood stage and without guidance too many relationships falter and go under at this time. I’ve developed an on-line program to help people get through to real, lasting love. I’ve learned that most marriages can be saved, but some are beyond repair.
Here are the signs that your relationship is unlikely to be healed:
1. Love has turned to hate.
Many couples will tell me there are times they feel like killing their spouse, but they still love them. Others say love has been lost, but they still care and want love to return. But if love has turned to hate, the relationship may need to end.
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