‘What do you think about ………….?’
Ask for her opinion – whether it is about buying a new car or simply about what you should wear to office. By doing this, you are not just asserting that her opinion is important to you, but also that you respect her views. And if you are still in doubt, just remember that women love to express their views on whatever it may be – so let her speak for longer than you may want to hear and let her be the diva who knows it all!
Kanika Shrivastava, 28, who works with a telecom company in Delhi agrees, “I feel really special when my boyfriend asks for my opinion. It boosts my ego. He consults me before taking any major decisions – whether it is regarding his career or investments. I appreciate the fact that he values me not just for my looks but also my brains.”
Hear say: “It’s important for a woman to believe that she is an important part of the decision making process. Asking her for advice – no matter how big or small the decision – makes her feel special and respected,” adds Dr. Sushma.