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7 reasons why dating multiple men at once made me crazy…


Dating multiple men at once made me crazy – I remember the dating game like it was yesterday. After making the big move to New York at 21, I had a never-ending string of suitors. I had it down to a science.


I would go on dates three to five evenings a week. My dates were all over the map: various degrees of education, divorced or never married, with or without children, between 24 and 44.

While none of the relationships were physical, I enjoyed having choices. The best part? Being exposed to so many different personality types helped me grow into a young woman ready to take on the world.

Marriage and children were sincere afterthoughts at the time. My focus was my career, and although I wanted a boyfriend, I usually didn’t take any of the guys in my dating rotation seriously enough to commit to one. At some point, I imagined, I’d happen upon someone who would be IT — I would just know.

Well, a lot has changed since then.

These days, it takes one HELL of a guy to get me off the couch and into a little black dress after work. My ‘dating rotation’ is, indeed, a thing of the past. I don’t have the schedule, patience — I refuse to waste my damn time! — or the short-term memory to support it.

How is dating less men actually MORE effective, you ask? Let me count the ways:

1. Quality over quantity, ladies.

Many single women complain that there aren’t enough good men left, and the good men that ARE left are already — womp, womp — taken. So ladies, if so few men meet your personal standards, you can’t possibly expect to manage six or seven quality guys in your dating rotation!

It’s simple: if you’re casually dating six guys, only about two will find their way into your ‘Potential Husband’ pile.

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