10 commandments every female must follow – Ladies, you gotta see this or…!

Thou shalt understand thine own identity: Know who you are without any labels. You have roles in your life that you play, but they are just stops along the way. Sometimes roles change, but that shouldn’t change who you ultimately are as a person. If your identity lies in being Joe or Jane’s “#girlfriend”, or if your identity lies in being a career woman and you’re laid off or broken up with, then suddenly you’ve lost who you are! Don’t base your identity and worth on something or someone that can be taken away from you. Identify with your soul. What do YOU love for you? What inspires you? What drives you? What brings you joy? Who is the real you deep down inside? Take some #time to yourself in a quiet place to think and that figure out. When you’re in solitude you’ll find that finally you’ll be in a place silent enough to hear your own voice. Listen in and check back in frequently. You are the train moving through stations of your life that will constantly change – know what fuels you. Know yourself.

Thou shalt commit to a cause: You don’t have to have it all to give all you can. Identify what causes you are passionate about and start exerting your strength to give back to your community. There are many different kinds of non-profit organizations you can take part in. If you don’t want to become a former volunteer you can always practice daily random acts of kindness. Help someone with their bags, open a door, give someone your seat. Even a small gesture can have a big impact. Everyone #benefits from acts of selflessness. Making others feel fabulous will make you feel fabulous too.