Types of guys women avoid – There are some men who seem to be natural magnets for the opposite sex, attracting women like light does moths. Then there are those other men who have a knack for making females flee, repelling them like maggots do, well, women.
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And while some suggest that the difference between these two camps comes down to minor personality nuances, those who do so usually fall into the latter category – and they’re wrong.
The reality is that there is a considerable gulf between the female attractors and the female repellers – one wide enough to allow us to separate them according to broad personality types.
But before coming to the happy (or horrifying) conclusion as to which side of the fence you fall on, you’ll need to do an honest assessment of your own personality. After all, there’s little point in sustaining the illusion that you’re a saint when every woman who’s ever dined with you has silently waited for you to choke. So let’s start the self-realization process with a personality test supplied by our friends at Maker’s Mark.
Have you ever wondered if the way you act makes women cringe? Have you ever worried that your behavior might be making them run in the other direction?
Just as women are attracted to certain archetypal men, there are other types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. And this is especially true during the early stages of a relationship, when a woman is trying to gauge a man’s personality.
Below are eight types of guys that women consistently stay away from. I have compiled this list from conversations I’ve had with numerous women regarding the behaviors they dislike in men.
But don’t worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself — most of them aren’t deal-breakers. The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you’ll be able to make a better impression next time around.
1. The Needy Guy
He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.
Why he is so unappealing: Confidence and independence are very sexy traits in a man — insecurity and dependence are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her — especially in the early stages of a relationship — she might doubt your ability to do this. And since women tend to come into relationships with all sorts of insecurities, she won’t want to deal with yours as well as her own.
What to do if you’re that guy: Timing is everything, so you just need to keep your feelings in check at the beginning of the relationship. Try to hold off on sharing all your feelings or divulging your insecurities. Once you are far enough along in the relationship, you can share as much as you want. By that point, she’ll appreciate knowing what’s on your mind.
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