4. You Do Not Trust Each Other
This is a fundamental reason why cheating can be so hard to get over. Trust is critical to a healthy relationship. If there is no trust, other aspects of your relationship may quickly erode. You may find yourself getting more paranoid or anxious about your partner’s behavior. This may make you start to turn your relationship to an area of stress as opposed to an area of love. Trust, once broken, can be rebuilt, but it needs to be done over time and through a lot of hard work by both partners. If you do not trust your partner and it is not crystal clear how much they love you and are working for you, your relationship may only be getting worse.