14 ways to show your love – Do this and your lover will love you forever!

13. Don’t be self-obsesse

If you tell him you love him, but only talk about your life and your problems all the time, he’s not going to feel like you really do. When we only talk about ourselves it’s more like using someone than loving someone. Make it a point to listen to him and really give feedback. Remember that his life is just as challenging as yours and he needs an ear just like you do.

Try not to complain and vent too much to him. He is not your sounding board to run to every time someone hurts your feelings. Happiness comes from within, not from him.