2. There’s not enough foreplay involved
Most men think foreplay is all the physical stuff that happens before sex. The truth is, though, that foreplay is ALWAYS happening!
Foreplay has two main objectives:
- To demonstrate that it’s safe for her to “let go”
- To get her turned on and craving you
If you wait until you’re in the mood to meet these two objectives, it will take a long time to bring her up to your level of arousal. When you realize that foreplay is always on and learn how to give it to her throughout the day, she’ll be excited and wanting you BEFORE you get into the bedroom.
Think about it this way: Foreplay is the way you look at her when she walks through the door, or the way you pin her up against the wall and give her a deep, passionate kiss in the middle of the day. Foreplay is the way you tell her how sexy her butt looks in those pants, without any expectation of sex.
When you start giving her random foreplay throughout the day, her subconscious starts to associate YOU with being turned on and, soon enough, she’ll initiate sex.
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