5. It’s Not about a Date

Chivalry is dead in the case of friends with benefits. Make sure your expectations are in the right place because there will be no dinner and a movie going on. If the guy is asking you out, let him know you aren’t looking for that right now. You just want to get to the good stuff at the end of a date. A lot of times, men will feel guilty that they aren’t taking you out or seeing you outside the bedroom. Let him know if he brings it up that it was your idea to keep that off the table. It’s a way to bruise his ego just enough he can understand not dating is simply a way to make clear you just want to get laid.