7 Signs the person you love is a highly sensitive over-thinker!

The person you love is a highly sensitive over-thinker - Have you fallen in love with someone who seems to question and ponder everything a billion times, backwards, and forwards? Does your current flame seem engrossed in thought more often than not? More..

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If your love is doing the latter, explain that perhaps he or she is letting that mind go amuck, and to take a deep breathe and think about the situation later. This is when you should try to distract your favorite over-thinker with an enjoyable pleasure. Perhaps a massage? Navigate using arrows below 2. They remember every little thing you say. That one casual remark that you made in passing? Well, your lover is already pondering about fifty million reasons for you saying it. Be careful with your words and don’t give out information that isn’t necessary or your partner might fret for nothing. If you notice that “thinking face” coming on, why not: Reassure: explain that those words that seem big to him are really small to you and not to be stressed about. Ask: ask your partner why he or she is fretting over what you said. Maybe there’s something going on that you don’t know about. Remind: remind your hot stuff that he or she tends to think too much from time to time, and that this isn’t a worthwhile use of their thoughts. 3. They don’t change overnight. There’s no way for you to fix an over-thinker. The over-thinker has to want to change some of his or her excessive thoughts. You can simply support your partner if they decide they want to seek therapy. You can, however, suggest tools to relax or redirect your special one’s busy mind, like: An exercise routine either at home or at the gym Running or yoga Meditation Online support groups and pages for anxiety (finding some would be very helpful and supportive) Turning off social media and email, as well as all tech after a certain hour Dedicated alone time 4. They’re great at planning. If channeled correctly, over-thinking can be useful if it’s fueled into analytical thinking. If you need an answer to a problem or want to plan a trip or any event, your love will be the perfect person to ask to take on the job. However, when it comes to travel time, tell your over-thinker to sit and relax a bit before predicting issues with the itinerary. Wink. 5. They need time to recoup after a fight. Your over-thinker may need extra recoup time if you two argue or words are exchanged. It’s draining to spend so much energy deciphering every single thing, so give your partner time to him or herself to relax. It may take time for him to come back around to you as well. 6. They can be hypersensitive. A friendly reminder that, “Hey, you’re really obsessing about this and it’s bringing you down” is helpful and needed sometimes, but be sure to not be too harsh. Over-thinking is a form of anxiety and isn’t something that magically goes away if you ask it to. Trust me, I’ve tried. 7. They create their own outlet for their anxiety. Don’t be surprised if your “thinking one” has a creative or particularly kinky outlet. A place to get out all of that anxious and frantic energy is a great tool. And besides, you might even be the beneficiary of said “outlet.” Enjoy it and support it, as long as it doesn’t hurt the person or your relationship. You can love an over-thinker until you’re blue in the face but remember: this won’t change him or her. But you can help your partner fuel that energy into a better channel. Your best mate will thank you. - YourTango CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY Top 10 Nigerian celebrities who were born rich (With Pictures) 20 celebrities you never knew were gay – The faces you see here, will shock you! (With Pictures) 13 things, clueless dudes don’t know women hate in bed 7 beautiful Nigerian female celebs who are over 40 but still single (With Pictures) 10 Nigerian celebrities with chieftaincy titles (With Pictures) The 6 most humble Nigerian celebrities – #3 is a shy billionaire! 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7. They create their own outlet for their anxiety.

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