3. Skin-to-skin contact is crucial for intimacy.
Like I just said, learning how to make love to your man is about connecting with him. Ideally you want to connect with him on as many levels as possible — emotionally, physically and even spiritually. The best, simplest way to connect with him in all these ways is to make as much body contact with him as possible.
This is why positions like missionary, the coital alignment technique and spooning are perfect as both of your bodies are in almost full contact with each other.
But just lying on top of each other or beside each other is merely the tip of the iceberg whenhaving sex. You can hold your man’s hands and interlock fingers, or you can both physically embrace by putting your arms around each other and hugging each other.