3. Because it fell into a pattern.
“I’ve only cried once during sex. It wasn’t because it was beautiful, although he was the hottest guy friend I had, like an Abercrombie model. But it also meant I’d slept with almost my entire group of guy friends in a two-year period. There’s nothing inherently wrong with having sex with as many people as you want, but I was young and so ashamed of myself. Shortly after college, though, I met the love of my life, and we got married in 2013!” —Maria P., 31