Signs you’re the one killing your relationship – It’s not them, it’s you. Are you always finding yourself in a sea of drama? Constantly fighting with friends or in a never-ending make-up-break-up cycle? We hate to break it to you, but you might the problem. Today, we’re sharing 10 signs you’re the toxic one in your relationship. The good news? Awareness is the first step towards change. Read on and be honest with yourself. A happier and healthier life may depend on it.
1. You’re a classic blame-shifter.
Whether it’s a job loss, a fight with your partner or a missed bill payment, it’s not your fault. In fact, you constantly feel that people are making you behave in ways that leave those around you shocked and disappointed.
Here’s a reality check: there’s no gun to your head; your decisions stem from your character and what you value. Do you value your relationships, reputation and happiness? Then work to discover the power in accountability and take control.
2. You’re super-negative.
Are you always finding the worst part of a situation and harping on it? You’re not a realist, you’re a drag. Just as life is not all rooftops and cocktails, neither is it long lines and warm beer. Misery might love company, but happy, healthy, productive people do not want to be around someone who is always eager to bring them down.
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