Conversations married couples should have – 1. Talk about being happy: It sounds corny..but so what. We check in with each other from time to time to see how the other person feels in the marriage and about the marriage. This allows us to then discuss how to address any concerns that we may have.
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2. Talk about what’s bothering you
hen something’s bothering you (even when that something is your spouse), you should be able to tell your spouse. Don’t let unresolved issues turn into resentment in your marriage. I have heard that great communication has 2 components: 1. effectively communicating (i.e using the right tone, picking the right time, and making sure your point is understood) and 2. listening (i.e – repeat what you hear, dig deeper and ask questions, let your spouse know that you understand.) But I always say there is a 3rd component, caring. If your spouse is telling you something over and over, then it must matter to them….so the question is..does it matter to you…are you going to work with your spouse towards a solution.
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