8. The clitoris is an important part of the process, but not the only part.
We get it: Once you finally figure out where the clitoris is, it’s like you just discovered the key to Narnia. But keep in mind there’s an entire vagina that needs servicing (not just the ignition).
9. Scale back on the suction.
You can never go wrong with various combinations of licking, flicking, and sucking—so long as you’re not morphing your mouth into a Shop-Vac. The clitoris alone has roughly 8,000 nerve endings (as a point of comparison, the penis has roughly 4,000). You’re not cleaning between couch cushions; you’re trying to get us off. Be gentle.
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