Times a guy will say NO to sex – As written by a guy. Can men say no when it comes to sex with someone we love (or even just like a little)? I’d like to say we can. I’d like to say with certainty, absolutely. But I can’t. I’m sitting here racking my brain trying to think of an instance where I would turn down the advances of my wife, and I’m coming up empty. Maybe it’s just me.
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Maybe there is a fine group of men who have mustered up the intestinal fortitude over the years to just say no. Men who share a kinship with the Tibetan monks and their ability to find peace within themselves and turn down the goddesses in our lives.
I’m sure they have their reasons, whether it principle, pettiness, pride or prejudice. I am not one of them.
There are five things, however, that make me really consider (possibly) saying no.
Hopefully, if women read this and take it to heart, we can end putting myself and others of my ilk through such a tormented quandary.
1. You’re trying to chit-chat during foreplay.
Look, the art of foreplay is a dance. A physical, emotional and spiritual tete-a-tete that can inspire and ignite. The last thing men want to do during this very sensitive time is discuss the chores he has to do after you finish your final act.
And please god, don’t talk about the kids, your parents, or anyone else.
No man wants to think about your father as we inch closer and closer to ultimate intimacy. You know what we’re thinking about? How can I please my wife, and maybe get some pleasure as well — that’s it. Because I love her.
We get it, your brain is moving at a pace most of us men will never understand, but for those 30 seconds to 30 minutes between the sheets, how about a moratorium on conversations on daily life. Maybe even dirty talk?
Oh well, I tried.
Once you reach satiation, then said moratorium may cease and we can get on with the daily grind.
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