Signs you’re way too needy with men – Needy, clingy behavior is a clear sign that you lack confidence in your worth. It’s time to woman up! You DON’T need a man to be happy. You grew up feeling alone and unloved. Your father was emotionally unavailable, hyper-critical or abusive. You have a low sense of self-worth.
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You keep looking for man’s conditional love, but you gravitate towards men who are non-communicating, unfaithful, deceptive and abusive — men who somehow remind you of your father.
You want a wonderful boyfriend or husband, but you believe that you’re unworthy of a man’s respect, love and commitment. You constantly need a man’s reassurance.
You romanticize and anguish about a relationship with your new man, so your feelings of uncertainty project desperation and neediness. As a result, you allow a man to walk all over you or you reject a man before he can reject you.
When a quality man shows an interest in you, you act out with your fearful, insecure and irrational behavior. You have panic attacks, binge on sweets and fried foods, drink too much, or succumb to promiscuous sex. You withdraw from your friends, worry frantically, and slip into a funky depression.
It’s a clear sign that you lack confidence in your worth.
Suitors back away from you and boyfriends fall out of love with you because a relationship with you is neurotic, difficult and emotional draining. Your underlying problem is:
- You’re afraid a man might reject or leave you.
- You’re afraid to be authentic and vulnerable.
- You’re afraid to trust a man because he might hurt you.
- You afraid a man won’t want you because you’re a middle-aged woman.
- You allow men in your life who are non-communicating, non-committal and abusive.
Girl, you need to realize your value as a woman!
We can’t choose our dads, but we CAN choose the quality of men we allow in our lives. We can’t change our hurtful, dysfunctional past, but we can create a satisfying and secure future.
Here are 7 signs you have needy, clingy behavior and how to change it:
1. You’re too accommodating.
When you chase a man, you are telling yourself: you DON’T think you are worthy of his pursuit. Out of eagerness and insecurity, you’re too nice, too available and you have sex with him too soon.
You feed his dog when he goes out of town. You ditch your girlfriends and you cancel your plans to go out with him at the last minute. When he doesn’t call or text you (like he said he would) you call him to hopefully reassure yourself. You’re afraid to say “no” to sex because he might stop seeing you.
Solution: STOP selling yourself short! Ignore the tingling, throbbing, love-sick feelings that you experience about a new man. Understand that it’s a natural part of your “need-a-man” cravings. Calling him makes you appear anxious and anxious makes you appear needy.
If you have to guess whether or not to call… the answer is “DON’T CALL!” If your gut morals tell you to hold off having sex with him — woman up and tell him you’re NOT ready to have sex. Succumbing to a man’s selfish sexual needs fuels your needy emotions and low self-worth.
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