Things you should NEVER do when flirting -Nigerian men are somewhat interesting; there are different things that will always amuse one when they are to be discussed. These guys are Nigerians for crying out loud, there are certain things they cannot put up with and you should never try to force them to. As much as we are advancing in technology and picking one or two things from the western world, it is normal for us to stick to our own views and opinions sometimes.
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Perhaps we should do a little bit of clarification here; some Nigerian men are exposed and well travelled while some are not. The exposed ones may find it hard to understand the way things are being done here because they have had the chance to mix with people from other tribes and nations.
They might have adopted one or two things from these people while they blended with them. The other group of men you find in Nigeria have probably stayed home for too long and have become indifferent to things. The abnormal things are being seen as the norm.
As a lady in Nigeria, you need to be prepped so that you would know what to do and what not to do when you are flirting with Nigerian men. Now, do not get defensive by saying you are not a flirt. You leading a man on simply because you enjoy the attention he throws you does not make you innocent.
Women flirt from time to time because they want to play or enjoy the company of the men. Some women that are logophiles flirt when they meet men who can string words together like them. They enjoy the way they trade words back and forth.
That being established, let us move on to the things you should never try while flirting with a Nigerian man. You can find some of these things below:
1. Do not be a talkative
The aim of flirting is to get a guy to be interested in you; if you want to do this then you should be mindful of the things you say and how much words you spill in the process.
The flirting should accentuate your good points and not make the man see the annoying part of you. Talking too much may cause the guy to be irritated and instantly turned off.
Speak more with your eyes and your body if you are flirting with a Nigerian man. Do this moderately so you do not end up making him feel like you are saying ‘Hey, yo! I’m a hooker’.
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