2. Focus on yourself.
During this time, your self-esteem may take a hit. If this happens, work on building your self worth back up and getting to a place where you feel calm during this time of uncertainty. Take care of things you have neglected, explore new interests, and get to a place where you feel okay with uncertainty.
When you feel okay again (i.e. no feelings of desperation, no negative energy, etc.), reflect on your relationship with him.
Is he really the right guy for you or do you have doubts? If you could design your ideal relationship, is what you have with him truly ideal? Do you feel happy most of the time when you think of him or when you’re together?
Or do the times of unhappiness outweigh the moments of happiness? Be honest with yourself as you may find that you may be better off without him.