8. You don’t negotiate.
A dating mistake some people make is not being willing to give up control. For instance, if Sunday is “your night together”, but he has a 7 A.M. Monday presentation, figure out how you can both get your needs met.
Maybe Tuesday works this week, or Sunday morning. How can you come to an agreement on a movie or TV show or vacation: taking turns, getting a second TV set, taking second vacations.
Take an objective look — stand back and see the situation as though it’s April, or 2017. Read related articles you’ve found when you googled Negotiating Conflict — 35,400,000 just now.
Or see what there is to learn when you search for Self-Love and see how that is compatible (and helpful) to creating a fine relationship.
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