12. They don’t hold grudges.
Despite any bumps in the road, your life partner should seek to improve your relationship rather than dwell on any setbacks.
13. They bring out the best in you.
Your partner should not provoke your inner worst qualities — only the ones that make you a better you.
14. They love all of you.
This includes your flaws, especially. Your personality traits don’t come à la carte, so he or she should be able to embrace you as a whole, shortcomings and all.
15. They can be held accountable.
He or she should be able to put aside their ego to be held accountable for any mistakes. Your partner should own up to them rather than place blame on someone or something else.
16. They allow themselves to be vulnerable to you.
Communication will prove to be the hugest challenge if either of you have a wall up. Your S.O. should feel comfortable enough to confide in you with all of their fears and secrets.
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