2. His phone is attached to his hip.
Our phones have become such an important deal in our lives that we actually consider them very personal. When he becomes very protective of his phone, though, it is natural that you become suspicious, especially if he never was like that before.
If all of a sudden he will not allow you to use his phone or he tries to “hide” it from you so that you can’t even see his screen, there is a reason to be suspicious that he may be cheating. Furthermore, do bear in mind that putting his phone on airplane mode can stop any kind of incoming text messages and that you will not see if he receives any message.
Another phone-related action that may show that he is cheating is taking his phone to the bathroom with him. If he always did that, then it may be OK. But if he just started doing it, then he may want to hide something from your eyes.
3. He overreacts when you mention the word “cheating.”
People who feel guilty of something often react in the nastiest ways possible. Some of them just mumble and fumble, while others become downright aggressive. Other people just try to turn the blame on the person who asked them the question that made them feel guilty. In other words, people react differently.
If you ask your husband or your boyfriend if he is cheating and he reacts in a totally overblown way, then it may be a sign that he was feeling guilty and feels that he’s been “spotted.” An elusive answer may be a minor sign, but larger signs would include becoming aggressive and trying to make it appear as if you are the one who is cheating.
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