14. Talking About Work
If you want to bore your date, then talking about work might be a good way to go. One thing that men say drives them absolutely crazy is when a girl does not stop talking about work on the first date. Not only have they said that it is boring, but it is also annoying because they want to take this time to get to know your personality and if all that you can talk about is a bunch of work gossip, then they are not interested. When it comes to talking about work, it is okay to tell them what you do on the first date, but you really should not go any farther than that with this subject and you should always give the man a chance to talk as well. In other words, don’t gossip or talk his ear off because no man likes to deal with either of those things.
13. Being On Your Phone
<This is probably one of the biggest pet peeves men have when they are out on a first date with someone. Men like some attention too and the last thing that they want is to be sitting at dinner with someone who is so glued to their phone that they can not get a single word in, especially since they are there for you, after all. Being on your phone if there is an emergency is one thing, but if you are texting or on Facebook all night long, then odds are you will not be having a second date. Technology seems to have really taken over in the past few years, but we all need to remember that there is life outside of those tiny little screens that we hold in our hands and that if we just look up from them, even if just for a moment, then we might find ourselves actually having a good time.
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