Of course, we all know that guys can have side chicks, but most of us forget that women are also cheaters. Yes, both sides are guilty. Let’s get this straight, not all women and men cheat, so you can find someone who’s loyal and faithful. However, at this moment, since you feel doubt, the person you’re dating isn’t one of them—maybe. But before we start accusing them of sleeping around, let’s look at some signs you’re not the only one she’s sleeping with.
How to tell the signs you’re not the only one she’s sleeping with
Ah yes, most guys think that you’re the one with a handful of women that you switch around, but this is the 21st century, people. Nowadays, it’s normal for people, including women, to have multiple partners when they’re single… and… not single. Sorry to break it to you. But this is the reality.
When I was single, I went on dates with a couple guys, trying to see which one I connected with the best, etc. Now, this is fine. However, it becomes tricky when you stop casually dating and go into something more serious. Why? Because then it’s cheating. No one likes to be with a cheater.
Maybe you’re the notch on her bedpost. What a plot twist.
1) She’s physically changed. Normally, she’s wearing sweatpants and hanging out with you at home. But now, she’s been doing her makeup, fixing her hair, and maybe even changing her outfits. If she gets a new shirt, that doesn’t mean anything until you base this from the norm. What is she usually looking like? Has it drastically changed from that norm?
2) She’s nagging you. If she’s always nagged, then this isn’t something out of the ordinary. However, if she used to be calm and now she’s changed, then she may be sleeping with someone else. This is her emotionally detaching and feeling guilty about it. To get through her emotions, she’ll start picking fights with you about everything. And you don’t even want to be around her.
3) She keeps her phone hidden. Guys, this isn’t because she wants alone time with you. If her phone is away, fine. If she’s on a date with her phone out and it’s face down, well, then that’s something. Why is it always face down? This could be nothing, but it could also indicate that she doesn’t want you to see anything… like a message from another guy.