I heard you slept with someone you truly had feelings for, in fact, you thought they reciprocated such feelings and now, they are ignoring you. He/she is completely “ghosting” you, and now, you feel bad for yourself, you totally regret letting them take advantage of your love… Well, this article by Natasha Ivanovic will help you know the reasons why you may have been ignored. Read till the end.
I know what it feels like to be ignored after sex. Not only is your ego completely crushed, but you just don’t understand why someone would do that to you. Okay, they didn’t need to propose marriage but the least they could have done was tell you they’re no longer interested. I mean, it still stings but at least you have some closure. But alas, they don’t even do that.
So, why is it that you were ignored after sex? Okay, I don’t know them personally, so their reason may be completely different, but usually, you’re ignored after sex for a few main reasons.
The real reasons why you’re ignored after sex
People refrain from getting themselves into relationships because they’re “complicated.” Listen, it doesn’t matter whether it’s a fling or a long-term relationship. The minute you add sex into the equation, it changes the entire thing.
You meet someone, you connect, you sleep with them. Suddenly, they’re nowhere to be found. What’s up with that? On top of all of that, you spend hours thinking about what you did to make you ignored after sex. It’s time to get down to the real truth.
#1 They only wanted sex. Now, this is completely cool if you talked about this prior to sex. That way, you know that sex was only what they wanted. While ignoring isn’t nice, you have it figured out.
If you didn’t ask what they were looking for prior to having sex, well, then you allowed yourself to be vulnerable to this type of behavior. What are they looking for? Casual sex? Getting to know you? A relationship? What?!
#2 You don’t know what you want. At the end of the day, people can tell when someone doesn’t know what they want. They may have slept with you and then realized that you’re looking for something more serious or more casual that doesn’t fall in their needs.