2. Miai
What happens if despite all your carved spoons and prancing, you still can’t find a bride? In Japan, they have this covered with the ancient practice of Miai. Basically, neither party has to lift a finger: everything is done for them.
Originally started in the feudal age to ensure marriages were beneficial for strong political alliances, it’s found its way into modern Japan, especially among members of high society. Courtship entails a nakōdo (matchmaker) doing a thorough background check on both parties and their family members. Next is an exchange of pictures followed by strict grilling to ensure compatibility of both families. This practice is considered so effective that even companies like Mitsubishi are using it to help employees find partners.
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