8. Avoid Vulnerability
Being vulnerable can be endearing, exciting and a huge stress reliever; but for a first date it can be overwhelming, intoxicating and questionable. It will make your date start to wonder if you have too much baggage, too much emotional stress or worst, too damaged to even be in a relationship. Save the vulnerability and let’s be honest, save all drama until you are closer, more understanding of one another’s lives and invested enough to look past the petty crap. Vulnerability at that point makes it seem like you are allowing them into your life and willing to support them when it is needed.
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