4. “I’m probably PMSing / It’s fine”
Both of the statements above mean that everything is definitely not fine. However, for some reason or other, your girlfriend is simply not ready to talk about what’s wrong yet. It may be that she is trying to assess her emotions to know if she’s over-reacting, or it may be that she is so upset she needs a few minutes to calm down and collect herself. The best thing to do in this situation, it to acknowledge that she is upset, and give her the space that she needs. When she is ready to discuss whatever it is that’s afflicting her, she will come find you and open the discussion.
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