12 subtle signs that proof your spouse might be cheating

9. He has a special Facebook friend

Nicole sat down to her family computer and up popped a big surprise: a message from a woman that read, “I can’t stop thinking about you baby.” “When will I see you again?” Face it: Social media friends don’t message like that. They congratulate each other on the birth of a new baby or a cool vacation photo. When the conversation gets racy, there’s a problem. “Most cheaters these days are caught via text or on social media,” says dating and relationship expert Rachel Russo. “When women snoop on a man, or accidentally find something, it’s often what they suspected. There could be incriminating photos, texts, or a call history that would prove to be evidence of an affair.”