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Here are what you learn and why you should embrace them…
1. You learn more about yourself and life.
Only when you get so close to someone in a serious relationship do your true personalities really come out. Such personalities don’t come out as strongly with friends because you don’t spend as much time with them — and you don’t have as much of emotional expectation as you would with a serious boyfriend or girlfriend.
This really makes you learn about life in terms of people, mannerisms, personality traits, core values and attitudes towards the world.
If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend who is so similar to you, then what you learn about him is like a reflection of yourself that you would normally not realize on your own.
If your boyfriend or girlfriend and you are so different, then clashes and frustrations also help you learn about yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, preferences and compatibilities.
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