8 Signs you are dating an immature man

Signs you are dating an immature man - Immaturity is a clear sign of emotional instability. Here’s how you can suss out if your man fits that bill… Read full article right after the cut... More.. 12 sex positions women seriously cant get enough of... The top 10 most expensive schools in Lagos - See which is #1! (With Pictures) Photos showing Maheeda's privates without underwear goes viral... (Look) The 12 hottest Kim Kardashian's booty shots ever! (+Photos) 1. Shies from commitment He may just not want to commit himself to anything in particular. Getting him to spend quality time with you is like getting a tooth pulled out. 2. Never accepts mistakes Instead, he resorts to pointing fingers at everybody. He’s not the sort to readily accept the blame. And if in case you manage to hold him responsible for something, he will still find a way to brush off the blame. Navigate using arrows below 3. No steady job This man may never have a steady job. Instead you may always find him cribbing about work. Apart from this, you may feel that he lacks ambition and only talks big about himself. SEE ALSO: 7 Fun things to try with your boobs

4. Never had a meaningful relationship When talking to you about past relationships, he may never mention a long-term one. Instead, he may just talk about one-night stands or a one that just lasted for a month. 5. Is way too vulnerable You may often find your man breaking down at the drop of a hat. While it’s okay to feel upset sometimes, when you go overboard in a relationship, it breeds trouble. 6. Is indecisive Says Pallavi Vaz, 28-year-old advertising professional, “Many times I have felt that I am the one constantly making decisions not only for the growth of our relationship, but also for him. He almost leaves every decision upto me, which is quite frustrating at times.” SEE ALSO: 15 Shocking facts about the penis - This will blow your mind!

7. Is very inconsiderate You may find him to be very selfish at times. His priorities are way different and “more important” than yours. You may feel agitated when you find him only thinking about himself and not about anyone else. Further, he may not even take a minute to be rude to someone. 8. Has no real life plans Your man may not have an idea about what he wants to do for a living. Says Devyani Parikh, 23-year-old media professional, “My boyfriend prefers to live his life on a day-to-day basis and take things as they come to him.” Such a guy couldcare less about his future or where he will be (personally and professionally) a couple of years down the line. What do you do if you are already married to such a guy It is said that women mature faster than men. There are a lot of reasons for this, but one of the main ones is that a man usually looks at responsibility as an enemy, something that would get in his way of living and be a hindrance to having fun. Women are more or less ready to take responsibilities in all its forms. SEE ALSO: 6 Sure signs your relationship is heading towards marriage Don’t take responsibility for his irresponsibilities One of the mistakes that women make in their relationship or marriage to an immature guy is that they make peace with their husband’s irresponsibilities. The only way you can probably make your husband more responsible and mature is not only by ignoring his irresponsibiltity but also let him suffer the consequences alone. You may have to do this in complete silence. Do not shout at him, lecture him and don’t mother him. He will gradually understand his ways and will start being more responsible. Communicate better Even though many women recognise this problem, they fail to communicate in the right way to their partners. If you feel that over time your husband has been immature and shows no signs of maturity, you must talk it out with him. Once you communicate your feelings and your opinions to your husband, he will make a move to taking up more responsibilities for the household, you and your children. Involve your family in decision-making Never make any decision alone. Make sure you involve your family and keep them in the loop when talking to your husband about something. This way if things go wrong in your relationship, you will not be the sole person blamed for it. Also, with the help of your family, you might be able to instil maturity in your husband and get him to be more serious in life. ALSO: Ladies, 21 signs your man is cheating on you - Don't let him fool you!

Get help from a counsellor If you feel marriage is on the rocks due to this nature, it is best you seek help from a professional. This will ensure that your husband communicates his problem better. This will go a long way in helping your husband grow up and mature. - The Times Of India CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY Here's what porn does to your brain, but you will never know! The 10 most notorious frenemies in Hollywood (With Pictures) Busted!! Pastor caught pants down with church sister making love on the floor (+Pic) Photos: Venus williams goes fully naked and looks like a goddess 20 dirty questions to ask any girl and make her wet... Top 15 shocking celebs nude photos that got leaked (with Pictures) Watch: Leaked video of naija's biggest runs girl 'Victoria' undressing for a white man Nigeria's most hairy woman in relationship with Enugu big boy (+Photos) Private pics of Abuja's biggest sugar mummy leaked by her boyfriend goes viral (See Photo) The 12 hottest Kim Kardashian's booty shots ever! (+Photos) 20 Sure ways to make any girl fall in love with you...

8 Signs you are dating an immature man

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