#7 – She’s Thinking…I Just Don’t Know My Husband AT ALL!

Porn is the opposite of what your wife thought sex meant to both of you.  She thought connection.  Porn is disconnected.  She thought “healthy” and loving.  Porn is not.  She thought she was special.  Porn use communicates she’s not.  And if you chose porn instead of her, it “means” that the impersonal, meaningless (as you have now told her) porn and masturbation were more important (and exciting) to you than her love, your relationship and your sex together.  She thought she knew you.  You proved to her that she didn’t.

What do you do with that information?  As a woman, how do you recover from being shown that you are less important than a complete stranger in what is, arguably, one of the most personal and important parts of your relationship?  That you thought you knew your partner well, but in fact you don’t?  That there may always be unpleasant surprises hidden inside your partner?

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