Understanding each other and trusting each other
If you can think something, don’t you ever wonder if your partner could think about something along the same lines too? But you’ll never find out until you talk about it.
But on the other hand, you could comfortably talk about a few things with your good friends, because you know you have nothing to lose. They’re your friends and they’d never judge you, even if you tell them you find someone other than your partner sexy or that you enjoy shopping more than spending time with your partner!
On the other hand, your partner too may be having similar conversations with their own friends. If you can trust your partner enough to be frank with them, you’d have a happier relationship with fewer insecurities and worries. It’s alright to want to do something by yourself at times, or give an appreciative glance at someone else whom you fancy.
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