Guys, 5 smart ways to touch your woman and get her totally melt down

5 smart ways to touch your woman – Last weekend my boyfriend and I were hanging out, working our way through a six-pack of lager, when he started to clean the inside of a vintage amplifier. As I watched him polish the delicate glass tubes, tighten minuscule screws, and run his fingertips among a network of wires,

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I felt a familiar weakness between my legs.

Those hands. The mere sight of them working touched off deep memories: in backseats, on blankets, in dark hallways, the first thrilling times with a guy. Ever since I was old enough to grope and be groped, a man’s hands have been an exhilarating turn-on.

Lots of women feel the same. The sad thing is, we don’t get this nostalgic (and reliable) treatment nearly as often as we’d like. Men over the age of 18 tend to dip their fingers for two reasons: 1) as a brief transition between dry humping and intercourse, and 2) to find out if our juices are flowing.

We want more. We want you to explore like an awestruck teenager again, to rub, tickle, circle, and probe in dozens of ways, under a variety of circumstances. Allow me to, um, take you by the hand.

The Car

Strategy: A 30-mile tease, then 360s
Why it works: It’s slow and semipublic.
Special equipment: Automatic transmission

A road trip is worth the price of gas if I can lie back and soak up the attentions of the driver’s right hand. You should focus on the road.

We have nothing but time, so take things slowly—this is what we love. For the length of an average song (perhaps “Slow Hand” by the Pointer Sisters?), glide your hand languidly up and down her thigh, coming closer to her crotch with every upstroke. Then slide your hand up and let your palm rest on her pubic mound. Keep it there. Take in the scenery. Look at that barn. Mm-hmm. Nice.

True, you have no leverage. This limits you to gentle touching. We love gentle touching. A featherlight stroke over our pants or panties makes our nerves stand on end. Resist the urge to delve deeper.

Instead, alternate between lightly stroking her entire crotch and circling her clitoral area with a fingertip. (Okay, it’s about time for her pants to come off. And maybe, uh, park—over there, now.) Once she’s naked from the waist down, lightly slide a wet finger around her clitoris, then stroke just above it (her clitoral shaft runs under there) with a side-to-side motion. If it seems like she might climax, just keep it up. You’ll get your turn.

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