The Shower
Strategy: All-body slipperiness
Why it works: She sets the pace.
Special equipment: Shampoo, soap
The pillars of female orgasm are rhythm and pressure, which is why we love to climb on top and sort of take over. One of the best ways to replicate that is only possible in the shower, with you providing a sudsy forearm as a hobbyhorse for her to ride on.
But hold on, cowboy. Just because you’re both already hot and wet doesn’t mean she doesn’t need foreplay. I’m sure I’m not the first woman to tell you how sexy it feels to have our hair washed by a man. Massaging shampoo into her scalp will release tension and allow her to focus on her body instead of her to-do list. After rinsing out her tresses, suds her up from head to toe. A hypoallergenic soap like Dove won’t irritate her sensitive nooks and crannies. Spend ample time on her shoulders, breasts, bottom, and thighs.
Rub her pubic mound in a circular motion with one hand and massage her bottom with the other. When her head tilts with pleasure, reach between her legs and slide your fore-arm back and forth over her entire vulva. Encourage her to move against your arm. Ultimately, she’ll take over, setting the pace and pressure she needs to reach her peak.
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