Spend time together and compete with each other!
As much as love is about sharing and experiencing, it’s also about competing and reminding your partner how good you really are! If you were at a conference and your partner was giving a powerful and inspiring speech to an audience, wouldn’t you beam with pride and happiness?
Why is that? It’s because you just realized how good your partner is, and how lucky you are to be with your partner. All our lives, we need constant reminders from the people around us to know how lucky we are to be with our partner. Love works its charm, but love is nothing unless you are impressed by your partner now and then.
If you want to understand how to better a relationship, make your partner see how good you are, and your partner will look at you in awe and will love you for it. And secondly, play video games together or indulge in some sport like squash, paintball, karting, or whatever else that works for you. Friendly competition keeps the adrenalin high and also increases the awe factor. And as long as both of you are winning some and losing some games, you’ll always have something to look up to in your partner. And that, keeps the love and desire up and running like a clock on solar power.
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