How to deal with a broken heart
As difficult and painful as it may seem, you still need to understand the most important fact here. You’re hurting, and you really need to move on. Fast. Here’s every single thing you need to do after a break up to ensure a speedy recovery and a quick jump into happy land.
#1 GET IT TO DEFINITELY END
First things first, you know you’ve broken up.
How?
Your partner has probably told you something like “…hey, I think we can’t go on, it’s just hard. I still like you a lot though… but I’m really sorry…”
You know what, lines like these are the reason why your heart aches. Soft words make you feel like there could still be a chance for the both of you, maybe even in the far future, and you end up thinking about your old love over and over again.
What you need is a clear answer that they want to break up with you because they’ve had enough with you. Try getting those words out of their mouth, and you’d feel a lot better, even if it hurts initially. Give them an opportunity to yell that they hate you, and never want to see you in their lives again.
Believe me, that’s a better option than dancing on hot coals trying to decide if your ex partner is still in love with you or not.
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