#4 LOSE ALL CONTACT
After your true undying love has come to an end, you have to break all contact with your ex or you will go mad. Don’t beg or cry. Don’t drunk-dial. Don’t write them mushy e-mail. Don’t spend all day reading their facebook pages. Don’t send packages or CD’s. Don’t dedicate a song to your ex on the radio, in an effort to woo them back. Get the picture?
Your ex will find you if they want to. And even if you can talk your way back into your ex’s arms, it’s only a temporary reprieve. The worst part is that your ex already knows you want them back, and they don’t care about it. Take that as a sign, and walk away for good.
#5 AVOID YOUR EX’S HANGOUT
Don’t stray into your ex’s territory. You wouldn’t be welcome, and if you find your ex having a great time there, that would only make you feel terrible. Find new places to hang out in, and new memories to keep your mind occupied.
Make a few new friends if you have to, anything to stop you from thinking about painful memories. If any of your friends insist on maintaining contact with your ex, you may have to shut them out too, at least temporarily.
After some time has passed, when you feel you’re ready to move on, you can go back to living normally, and that means hanging out at these places and reconnecting with your mutual friends.
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