10 of the fastest ways you can heal from a heartbreak

3. Motivate Yourself

Think about the kind of person you were before the relationship. Whether you were together for six months or six years, the chances that you changed as a person are more than likely expected to happen. If you like the person that you have become, then you should strive to stay that person and do things that (again) make you happy. Create goals. Make a calendar to do certain things that pertain to those goals and stick to it. If you aren’t happy with the person you are now, then do something to change that. There is absolutely nothing stopping you but yourself.