Say just the right things to get her in the mood – Ahhhh, dirty talk, a saucy girl’s favourite pastime. I love talking dirty, texting dirty, flirting dirty, and getting my guy all revved up just through my words.
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I use all of the components of speech to get my point across- sighs, moans, exhales, inhales, words with lots of consonant energy to them (ie: f*ck or sh*t), subtext; the list is pretty much endless and the benefits are numerous. Research has shown that individuals competent in sexual communication tend to experience increased sexual pleasure. In other words, tell her what you’re thinking and you’ll be well on your way to Pleasure Town. Ask her to do the same and, well, you’ll be orbiting the moon in no time flat.
I was able to formulate the top five ways to dirty talk your partner with the help of sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer. Hellyer is an expert on sexual communication and practises in Australia. Her website is a tremendous resource for inquiring minds and complete deviants alike. Now get your tongue around the following.
1- Respect The Zone
The Zone isn’t a mythical place, it’s an actual reality for a woman who isgetting ready to orgasm. During peak times of sexual arousal, a woman’s brain begins to shut down and her ability to communicate is limited. Don’t expect dirty talk when she’s in The Zone. You want her in that receptive space, that diffuse area where time suspends and her limbs tingle. Don’t expect her to start smack talking like a porn star. That’s actually an indication that she’s faking it.
“Guys like to talk when they’re having sex; women don’t seem to if they’re in the Zone,” says Hellyer. “What a lot of people don’t understand about the Zone is that it’s kind of like the left hand side of her brain [where the speech centres are] switches off. That means that for a lot of women it’s actually quite hard for them to speak when they’re in the throes of passion. When a woman gets really receptive and those brain centres turn off and she’s just like “Omigod, omigod!” If she can even manage that…”
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