Look in the mirror as you talk. Part of what creates anxiety during phone calls is that the only feedback you get is the person’s voice; you can’t see the facial expressions they’re making as you speak. Thus, looking at yourself in the mirror can help make you feel less awkward; rather than talking into an empty abyss, it tricks your brain into thinking you’re talking to another human face-to-face (who looks friendly and handsome enough!).
As a bonus, the aforementioned studies on forced smiling showed that its happiness-inducing effect is increased when you watch yourself grin in the mirror.
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