Words that make you irresistible to men: These 3 simple words changed my love life forever! I wondered all my life how some women seem to mysteriously and easily attract desirable men—and I did not. And “why” men didn’t ask me out for a second date? And then a girlfriend said three words to me that opened my eyes to WHY men were indifferent to me.
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Camille captured the attention of men effortlessly. Men called her and they took her to dinner and social events. Men admired Camille and they enjoyed talking to her. If we were at a party, all the men would ask her to dance. When we were shopping, I would sometimes have to wait for her to finish an impromptu conversation with a strange man. Even the mailman seemed to linger to chitchat with Camille.
I just didn’t understand what men saw in Camille? She was attractive, but not gorgeous. She didn’t have a job or money. WHAT was she doing that got her this kind of attention from men?
Truly, I was fascinated with Camille’s magic allure. One evening I asked her, “How do you attract so many men?”
Without giving it a thought, Camille said, “I just love men.”
What?!? I thought, She’s cracked. She’s wacko! A real looney-tune. I couldn’t possibly love all men—nor would I want to.
I thought about Camille …
As an adolescent her father was the most important person in her life. Hisunconditional love nurtured her acceptance and understanding of men, programming her at very young age to enjoy, value and appreciate the very essence of a man. Her father taught her to revere and respect herself as a woman. It became the foundation of how Camille would relate to all men for the rest of her life.
I, on the other hand, grew up with a hyper-critical mother and an emotionally unavailable father. As an adult I craved the love and acceptance of a man and I doubted my self-worth. I didn’t know how to gain a man’s respect and I committed to men who were less than what I wanted and deserved.
Camille was as cocky as she was confident. “I deserve to be put on a pedestal,” she told me, “And I would never be with a man who did not treat me that way.”
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