9. Initiate More Often

We hear this one from EVERYONE! “Men are expected to perform all the time and that’s not realistic,” says Dr. Dawn Michael, clinical sexologist and author of Intimacy Guidebook for Couples.

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“They don’t always want to be the one to initiate sex.” When men have to initiate every time, it makes them feel less desirable and can give them performance anxiety.