3. Get to know the person better and try to share his/her passions.
If you succeed on your first date and something gets started between you two, try to strengthen the bond with the one you like. Remember, the first step in getting someone to love you is to get to know the person better and allow the person to get to know you! But take note that it’ll take time and energy! You have to ask the right questions and listen well. Ask about what the person wanted to be as a child and what she or he dreams about now – this will tell you about the person’s hopes, plans on future and reveal his or her inner world better than anything else.
After asking about likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, and goals, show an interest in something the person loves, like music or sport. Moreover, you should learn to appreciate the things that make him or her happy. Talk to your love interest about his or her hobbies: if you don’t know much (or anything) about, ask to tell you more or even teach you how to play the favorite game or musical instrument. This will give you something to bond over and put you on the path towards love.
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