2. Be Clever
Conversations are a verbal tennis match. Audacity can only do so much, bro. You need to switch up the game a little. You can actually turn a girl on by being able to playfully slip flirting into a properly constructed conversation. It’s not just answering every question with a question, but keeping it all entertaining. That’s the best use of being clever: Creating a sensual torpedo undetectable by conventional radar so that it’s fun. Another big reason for using cleverness is because you want her to feel comfortable. Unless there is copious amounts of alcohol involved, you can’t put her on the spot with your affection. Throw in astronomically calculated compliments, sarcasm and opinions. If she runs with it then you are in. Let the metaphorical submarine surface because you just successfully used cleverness to sneak the dialogue into flirtation. To this date, the most quick-witted bar side conversation I’ve ever had was maybe a year ago. I couldn’t tell if this girl was into me or not, so I kept it cool for as long as possible. She goes, “What are you studying?” I say, “Good question, I’ll let you know.” The girl turns to me and laughs, “So you’re one of those guys.” “Yeah, I am. Are you one of those girls?” We continue this back and forth and I launch my disguised pick-up line, “So where do you want to grab breakfast, tomorrow?” She visibly understands what I just basically asked and responds, “IHOP.”
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