8 differences between being in "in lust" and "in love"

Differences between being in "in lust" and "in love" - Know the difference. Love , lust: it’s easy to confuse the two, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Both emotions make you feel a kind of bliss that you’ve never experienced before – which is wonderful and joyous and something to celebrate. More..

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When you’re in love, you point out their mistakes. You love them, which is why you want them to be a better person. And if they love you, they’ll accept the (constructive) criticism and try to be a better person not just for you but for themselves, too. 3. When you’re in lust, you say what they want to hear. You constantly aim to please. When they ask you a question, you’re more apt to reply with a “safe” answer, even though it might not fully express how you feel. (You figure you’ll get to that later, right?) When you’re in love, you keep it real. You don’t agree with everything they’re saying and you clearly state that. Having different views and opinions from your significant other doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not a good match; it just means that SHOCKER: You’re different people. And that’s okay. Healthy debate is good and normal and helpful at seeing things from another perspective. 4. When you’re in lust, the person you’re with is a Greek God/Goddess. Or rather, try this analogy: a perfectly-shaped cookie with no dents or chipped corners. But hate to break-it-to-you: even perfect-looking cookies have burnt sides (even if they’re not visible at first). SEE ALSO: 10 things that make a man attractive to a woman - Guys, see this now!

When you’re in love, they’re more like a Greek God/Goddess statue missing it’s arm. Perfectly imperfect, just like you! Pretending to be anything other than that is exhausting and oh: A LIE. 5. When you’re in lust, you don’t really know them. Sure, you know their favorite color is blue and their favorite food is macaroni and cheese. But that’s surface level-stuff. You haven’t dug down deep – and girl, that tunnel is LONG. SEE ALSO: 10 Romantic things to do after making love - This will make your lover love you more! When you’re in love, you know small insignificant details. Their favorite color is blue because when they were little, it was their mother’s favorite color to dress them up in. Their favorite food is mac & cheese because it’s the comfort food their Grandma always made them when they went to visit. These small, seemingly insignificant details are intimate parts of their past and who they is. And you know all these little, beautiful factoids because you took the time to really get to know them – and better even, you still want to know more. 6. When you’re in lust, you don’t feel comfortable talking to them about your problems. Talking about your problem can help ease stress and tension. But you prefer to talk about them with someone you trust. And let’s face it, you’re just not at that ride-or-die stage yet. When you’re in love, you’ll talk to them about, well, basically everything. You know you love someone when you can trust them with the most minor (and major!) issues you’re having, not matter how weird/trivial/embarrassing they are. You know that they’ll listen without judgement. That’s love. 7. When you’re in lust, silence is awkward. Which is either filled with rambling or make-out sessions. No objection to make-out sessions, of course, but the fact that you both find the silence awkward is a sign of discomfort. SEE ALSO: 25 Diseases and medical conditions that can be cured simply by having sex

When you’re in love, silence is welcomed. When you run out of conversation topics , you don’t feel like you need to fill the silence with something else. You just let the silence sit comfortably. The void is welcome. 8. When you’re in lust, the future is unknown. Yes, you’re enjoying every moment you have with them right now. You love their attention, the dates, and the feeling of pure bliss. But when you look at the long run, you have absolutely no idea what the next few months (or years!) will hold. It’s a little scary. When you’re in love, you welcome thoughts of the future . Whether you marry or not is up to you both, but can you see yourself sitting side-by-side on matching rickety rocking chairs? Does the idea of that give you something to look forward to? Do you picture bad vacations, fights over trivial things, and (gasp!) babies and can’t imagine anyone else taking this journey with you? Then, you’re totally and utterly in love. - YourTango CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY Top Nigerian celebrities who are best of friends – You’ll be shocked! (+Photos) 10 celebs living with deadly diseases (With Pictures) The 10 most common lies girls tell their boyfriends – Guys, see this now! 17 Haunting last photos of famous people that will shock you! 15 Signs he’s just keeping you as a side chick – Ladies, see this now! Top 8 Wizkid’s songs ever – See which is number 1! Ladies, 9 things men do when they start falling in love with you (Take Note) Beware Ladies! 6 dirty tricks some men use to get women to sleep with them – See this now! 12 Nollywood actors we would love to see on our TV screens again (With Pictures) 8 personal facts you should NEVER EVER reveal on a first date – Make sure you see this! 10 divorced celebs who are now best friends (With Pictures) How Lagos has been transformed in recent years – This will leave you stunned! (With Pictures)