8. Am I Hard?
Nothing says a confident lover like constantly worrying about your own state of arousal. Call me crazy, but I don’t remember any adult film where the lady is calling out for her man who is unable to please her. Unfortunately, worrying about whether you are hard is one of the quickest ways to make sure that you are not. Nothing is sexier than making sure that you are confident with your level of manhood, and realizing that even if the state of arousal went away, it would not be the end of the world. It may not stop you from worrying about it once in a while, but hopefully you have a partner who is making sure you feel reassured.
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