Girlfriend behaviors that will destroy your relationship – You’re wildly attracted to her, but something isn’t right. You have a nagging feeling something isn’t quite right with your current relationship and you’re exhausted from it. It eats at your happiness and your self-confidence, spilling over into your work and even inhibiting your success.
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Sometimes your partner does things that seem to bring nothing but pain and conflict. She does them repeatedly, and you don’t know if it’s you, or something you’re doing wrong, or if it’s her, and just how she is. You want the relationship to work, but maybe the chances of it being the relationship you want are slim to none if she’s showing some or all (let’s hope not all) of these behaviors.
The key here is to look for patterns of behavior, not just an isolated instance. The trend is your friend in this case. It will tell you what you need to do, if you are aware of it. And by the way, if you see any of these behaviors in yourself, then it sounds like you also have homework to do. A wise man once told me (ok, it was my dad), “However it is when you’re dating, it will be a hundred times more so when you’re married.” So, if your relationship is a living hell, it’s time for you to decide, how you’re going to live the rest of your life. Watch and learn.
10. Substance Abuse
Are hard drugs and/or heavy drinking ever a part of her repertoire? Does she ever blackout and not remember what happened the night before? Does she ever start drinking early in the day? This is a particularly difficult situation, knowing that even should she decide to stop, there’s a statistical chance she’ll start again. You have to decide if you can live with these chances. A nine-year study of married couples done by the University of Buffalo showed that when one spouse drank significantly more than the other, the divorce rate was 50%. It’s your decision whether to stay with her, or not. Just remember, if you decide to stay with her, the odds are stacked against you.
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