#1 Fantasy bowl. Write down five dark, secret fantasies of yours in five individual pieces of paper. Fold them up and drop them in a bowl. Ask your partner to do the same. Shuffle the chits of paper and pick one, and talk about that fantasy together. You don’t need to focus on having sex at all!
Just turn off the lights, get under the sheets and discuss why you or your partner likes that sexual fantasy and what stimulates each other about it. If your partner describes their fantasy to you, just listen to them and run your hands along their body as they describe the fantasy. Before you even realize it, both of you will be really turned on. Just remember, the darker the sexual fantasies, the more aroused both of you will feel.
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